If this sounds radically different than how you typically feel and act with men, then that’s great news. You can be angry and still know that you’re 100% OK.You now have the opportunity to get rid of a bunch of unhelpful, painful and ineffective habits and replace them with one simple new habit: being OK. When you can live like this, you’ll find that any bad mood or emotion flows through you rather quickly.Which brings me to the ultimate way to be stress-free throughout a seduction… Quiz If you fixate on one guy, you’re setting yourself up for a lot of stress.
If you want to successfully seduce a man, you have to realize that behaving like that is going to completely destroy your ability to do so.
Before you begin, you have to fully accept that you’re going to have fun and not stress over anything that happens.
In order to do that quickly, I need to be blunt at times and I can’t be worried about whether or not I’m being politically correct or violating someone’s taboos…
Just know that my goal here is to help you get the results you want… to do, but it will be entirely useless if your mindset is wrong.
For example, maybe you want to seduce a guy into your bed, but the underlying reason is because you don’t really feel attractive, and you think that successfully seducing him will prove that you are.
Or maybe you want to get a particular guy to chase you to prove to yourself that you’re worthy of pursuit (because you don’t believe you are). point is, if your goal in seducing a guy is to feel better about yourself, you’re going to be at a considerable disadvantage. Because you won’t be able to be carefree in the seduction…You’ll just have fun in the moment and enjoy your interactions with him… everything that’s happened in your life, everything that is happening right now. What I’m saying is that you’re always in touch with your internal sense of OK-ness…and outside of the moments you’re with him, you won’t really be thinking about him at all. you can be sad at a given moment and still know that you’re completely 100% OK.Instead of sinking down deeper and deeper into a negative emotion and feeding into the mental drama, you will simply shift your attention to remembering that you’re OK, and in the grand scheme of things, there really is no problem.The bottom line is this: Most people (men and women) spend their lives believing they have a problem (or multiple problems), then spend all their time and attention mindlessly chasing after solutions to their mind-created problems.If you understand how a seductress thinks, views the world, and what her overall philosophy is, then you will probably automatically seduce people through your mindset alone…c ombined with the right moves, you’ll be an unstoppable force of nature. Is your goal to get out of the friend zone with a guy?