Complimenting any of these four areas is sure to be effective. Some guy invented them 100 years ago and some amateurs still believe they will work today.
Go on to let her know how smart you think she is and if she drops something or does something silly, then, don’t forget to let her know how cute she is.
Chinese girls seem to have a cute fetish and they do everything to act and look cute.
(If this sounds familiar, it is probably because it is almost identical to the difference between the male and female perspectives on moving in together before marriage.) Any man who is mildly observant of the opposite sex will have a hunch in the back of his mind that this kind of relationship is bound to explode eventually.
But he isn't going to turn down all of the commitment-free sex he'll get in the meantime just because of some "feeling." Men don't trust feelings the way women do. If it is called "no-strings-attached" relationship, that's exactly how he treats it, no matter how much cuddling and hanging out is involved.
Hopefully, if you play the cards right you will not walk away empty handed. Pick something very narrow to focus on and use it to transition into a broader compliment.
Don’t just say that the girl looks beautiful, but rather look for something specific and compliment that.In general, avoid pick-up lines, jokes, and sarcasm. Avoid saying calling a girl “funny”, as it carries a negative connotation in Chinese. When she asks how many girlfriends you have had, lie about the total number.Chinese girls aren’t used to using or hearing that kind of language and usually won’t understand it. If she makes you laugh, then just use tip 5 and say she is “cute”. Usually, Chinese women don’t look for a date, they look for a husband.Even what might seem like a small insignificant date to you, will be an opportunity for her to observe you and decide if you are a good potential long term partner.If you are also looking for marriage, then telling her you want to form a family and would love to have a couple of cute mixed babies one day, will melt her heart.At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.