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You know he could decide at any time to stop the affair and try to work on the marriage, or that his wife or someone else can find out and blow his cover.
You know you are participating in something that is potentially damaging to many people and that there could be repercussions for yourself.
I’m going to tell you something about men and porn that is so important, so profound, that I’ll write it in all caps, bold it and use italics…oh, and put it in red also: A man could be in the most amazing relationship, with the most beautiful woman in the world, and have mind-blowing sex every day, and he would still look at porn. It means nothing and you can’t stop it anymore than you can stop the tides. If a man sees a woman he doesn’t like he’ll have brief flashes of thought about how he wouldn’t like to do her. It is a curse and all men simply learn to disregard these images and thoughts. If one of the checkers is especially attractive, but has the longest line, we will probably take it anyway if we don’t look too creepy doing it.
Again, this so obvious it’s hardly worth mentioning. We don’t do this because we have allusions to getting lucky. We just get a kick out of being in the company of beautiful women. This means that we are attracted to most of our female friends.
There are lots of women that would make suitable friends. Why not put your effort towards the ones you find most attractive?
Initial sexual attraction has probably forged the majority of male/female friendships. So if you are a female with lots of males friends, you probably have a lot of men who, under different circumstances, would most definitely like to have sex with you. Our first thought is “there’s no way anyone woman in their right mind, with any standards or pride, would have sex with that”. And if we had to be born female, we’d prefer to be a lesbian. One of the main driving forces for a man to settle down is to secure access to frequent and reliable sex. By pairing up with a woman who can provide sex on a frequent basis, we’ve eliminated one of life’s biggest distractions and sources of frustration. This is because by having sex you just demonstrated to him that you have a relationship to begin with. Free, but a prisoner You have been freed from the dating game, from the painful aspects of being single, yet you are tied to his schedule.You find yourself forgoing activities that you used to enjoy that might make you unavailable to him should he suddenly have time to see you.If you weren’t providing an escape from another relationship, would he still want you?